20 27 year old dating attention dating deficit disorder guy
She'll probably change a lot over the next couple years. I'm not saying not to date her, but I would keep it very casual for awhile.
I'm think more along the lines of emotional maturity because I feel like there's a huge difference between being 20 and around 23.
Neither of us are interested in marriage as we aren't religious.
We have considered children, but of course we would rather wait while she develops her career.
That's not necessarily the end of the world, but you have to be a little more vigilant to make sure your relationship is always one between equals and neither of you ends up resenting the other. I am in a relationship that started with her at 19 me at 25 we have been together 7 years at this point.
IMO emotional maturity is the most important thing.
My friend gets exasperated with his girlfriend because she gets excited over random stuff that means so little to him now.
She is also a big drinker - since she's just getting into that stage in life - whilst he has been there and done that and would rather settle for a few quiet beers in his house these days.
Plus there's usually a huge difference between in emotional maturity between 20 and 25.My friend is 30 and in a relationship with a 21 year old.I think it's important to realise that a lot of things that may seem trivial or stupid to you (the older party) are going to be a big deal for your younger other half.I agree that five years isn't a big difference in the scheme of everything, but the gap between 20 and 25 is pretty significant. A 16 year old dating an 11 year old would be creepy.Yes, you're both adults, but she isn't done maturing.I make enough for us both, but she wants her own personal security which i completely understand and want her to have.A lot of people are saying that 5 years isn't a lot, but I would disagree here.I would also recommend NOT sleeping with her if the opportunity comes up swiftly after your first date.In fact, I would suggest that, if she were to go down that route, then it is a warning sign of immaturity. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .