Boundaries in dating by cloud and townsend
Perhaps he feels that he isn’t making enough money, showing enough interest in her activities, or helping enough around the house.
If many of your dating experiences have been difficult, Boundaries in Dating could revolutionize the way you handle relationships.
In the message, Harris also indicated that it was "OK" for single men and women to go out for coffee by themselves, apparently correcting misconceptions some singles had in his church.
Christian psychologists Henry Cloud and John Townsend suggest that avoiding dating in order to avoid suffering, as Harris advises, causes those who do so to forgo opportunities to mature, especially through learning how to create healthy boundaries.
You care about how you affect your spouse; you care about your spouse’s welfare and feelings.
If one spouse feels no sense of responsibility to the other, this spouse is, in effect, trying to live married life as a single person.