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When she commits, she is fiercely loyal and she will die trying to help him realize his true potential.
Rescuers also often come from families in which they felt the need to take care of a sibling or parent, or in which there was a high level of turmoil and drama.
If we filled a fountain with a quarter for every woman who’s loved and tried to save a broken man, we could probably fill Niagara Falls.
This destructive relationship pattern—what I call rescuing wounded souls—is one of the most common relationship problems that face women today.
In fact, at least part of the time I feel as if he has rescued me.
The answer is a full-throated, “Yes, she can change—but only with disciplined work and self-exploration.
You might ask yourself why a woman would stay with such a man.
For the rescuer, she values love and relationships above all else.
I have been with someone for a while now and I sometimes wish I could go back and stop myself saying let me take care of you when we first met (literally within days).
Things have changed as I have begun to take more care of myself and discover who I am. I can remember trying to save every baby/injured animal I came across (still do and I'm 29), counting the days until I was old enough to babysit my neighbors 3 kids, and overall forming my codependent ways (even though I wasn't raised around an alcoholic).