Ex dating soon after breakup
Stempfley tells ET that she first met Luyendyk Jr., a race car driver and real estate agent who currently resides in Scottsdale, Arizona, through Instagram."We started talking in January 2016, just through direct message.We kind of talked off and on just through Instagram, but I landed a job in Scottsdale after graduating [Miami University in Ohio]," she explains.I don’t know what’s going to come about this season.If this is what he wants and if he's determined for it to work, then I hope that it does for him.""[But] I don't want to sound like I’m bashing him," she continues.Also, resist listening to “your song” or going to your favorite places, as this will trigger feelings of sadness.As you work through your feelings, keep yourself busy with things you enjoy.
"You know, you’re trying to get answers and you can’t. So I texted him for the first time in awhile, exactly four days before the announcement on Labor Day, and I said, ‘Are you awake?' And he called me within a minute or two," she claims."I asked him, 'If you were becoming the next Bachelor, would you at least have the decency to tell me?She says they even spent holidays together.“I attended all of his family holidays including Thanksgiving and Christmas," she claims, adding that just within this year, she traveled with the reality star to three of his out-of-state races.“My family was head over heels about him," she shares."They thought he was very charming and very sweet and they really liked him.went on their first date in July 2016, and recently celebrated their one-year anniversary by going back to the restaurant where they first met: Chelsea's Kitchen.She felt their relationship was serious and would like to think he did too.To stay strong after a breakup, cut off ties with your ex, no matter how hard that may seem.If you feel the urge to call or text your ex, delete their number from your phone. Moreover, get rid of any mementos, such as photos or presents."But when he was in town he stayed with me and he asked [if he could]."Flash forward to July 31, 2017, when everything seemingly changed overnight. It was just a regular day, so it definitely caught me by surprise.A source previously told ET that the couple broke up just two days before Luyendyk Jr.'s "The night before the breakup, we hung a light fixture together, made beef stew and I slept over. It was over the phone originally, just out of the heat of an argument, just a small argument," she claims.