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For me flirting is work, not fun, I need to know if she's interested or just up to something, like getting free drinks or whatever.
You have to be very careful, you never really can be sure why a woman starts flirting.
Sometimes flirting is completely obvious, but often it's more indirect and tentative.
If the other person isn't interested in you, they might not even notice they were flirted with.
When I say, I initiated it, I mean that since the introduction came from me, I can be reasonably sure that the exchange is sincere.
Of course, I'm still looking for signs that she is just jumping on an opportunity to get something out of me if she knows I'm interested, but, at least I have some control over the exchange.
If they are big flirts or too complimentary, I don't trust them.
Flirtation can actually be to your advantage if you have trust issues. Being too complimentary etc., is not flirting in my book.