Fugly girl dating
She's funny, enthusiastic, and totally present in all her work. Pro: literally everything else about her, from her fuck-me-&-fuck-me-MORE eyes down to the rest of her luscious body (best smile since Adria Rae, btw).
Otherwise perfect body ruined by the nothing but this distracting ink work.
There was one Chinese boyfriend who told me, flat out, that his parents would never accept me.
I don’t doubt he loved me in the beginning — but once his family knew, I suspect they made it clear that there was no future in what we had.
CFL is like a tidal wave of American men in love with Chinese women, with only a rare American woman/Chinese husband surfacing to break the monotony. Several years ago, when my husband enrolled in a New Oriental class in Shanghai for GRE prep, the instructor warned all of the Chinese men: “If you’re going to study abroad, prepare for four lonely years.” The underlying message was, don’t expect to fall in love — but be pleasantly surprised if it happens.
There are hardly enough books depicting foreign women with Chinese boyfriends or husbands. When you have a Chinese husband or boyfriend, sometimes you feel as if you belong to a lonely club. One of my dearest e-mail friends, a woman from Germany, once found me on the net because she had a — then — Chinese boyfriend and yearned to find someone to share her experience with.